Monday, December 27, 2010

Three Factors That Can End Your Relationship Instantly

           
             Reports make some people take it for granted, while others go to their entire existence. Some people are lucky to have for life, while some see it as a never-ending task. Some find it difficult while others find it a breeze. Everyone has an opinion about what it's like a love story, but one thing is certain, if we are serious, we would make all well. And if we want our marriage to last a lifetime, it is given to three factors, we must get rid of. All three features are impatience, immaturity and selfishness. Once these behaviors are achieved overcome by a successful marriage or love relationship can be.

Let us first discuss impatience. Although the discovery of ready meals, instant chat services and everything has made our lives easier and more convenient, but also has a pattern of destructive behavior that make the stay together unhappy and self-developed instant gratification can.

"I want it in fifteen minutes, hot and delicious and cheap." This kind of pampering has driven our impatience. It has a "right here to know exactly" kind of thinking. We can not put us in our daily lives, especially in our marriage. We can not help but sometimes we treat our business as a service instead of an instant self-service, fast food instead of fine dining. We thought that marriage is like a commodity rather than a disposable fine china, which should be maintained and guarded. Remember that heart good things are those who practice patience and perseverance. There are some things we have to work hard effort and hard work, because the reward is beyond our understanding, and this includes our relationship.

The second characteristic that every relationship is unhappy to immaturity, especially emotional immaturity.

emotional immaturity is the inability of a person in the relationship of sympathy. They take their problems to their partners and do not know how to apologize. If one or both people are emotionally immature, so there is no way for the relationship to flourish. Romance requirements together, listening, open communication, respect and thrive, and all these are not to do when you are emotionally immature.

The last factor that your relationship may end in a moment of ego or attitude "me-first". This kind of self-absorption is very different from self-care for your loved ones, this is different than even the love of man, take care love. They are selfish, if she believes that your needs are more important than anyone else in the family. They believe that if your needs are not first, then the romantic relationship has not worked. If you are selfish, you are innocent manipulation of the people around you. Can not see nothing wrong with love and take care about people who loves you until you find your way.

Marriage needs constant care and attention he needs deep trust and altruism. If you are in any or all of these behaviors you can not worry, you can still operate a round of three hundred sixty degrees when you are ready to have it. If you make a change to fight, ask your partner's help, romantic relationship, but is making the most of each other.

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